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51 Self-Discipline Books for Personal Growth

Want to stop hitting snooze on your dreams? Self-discipline isn't about punishment, it's your secret weapon for crushing goals and living life on your terms. Whether you're battling procrastination (hello, S.J. Scott's 'How to Stop Procrastinating'), need a kick from former Navy SEAL Jocko Willink's 'Discipline Equals Freedom,' or crave the psychology behind willpower in Peter Hollins' 'The Science of Self-Discipline,' the right book can be your game-changer.

Ready to transform from "I'll start tomorrow" to "I'm already doing it"? Start changing your habits and becoming a better version of yourself today with our carefully curated selection of must-read books.

Best books about discipline

Self-discipline is the ability to give short-term pleasure for a long-term goal. It motivates you to do your job well, even when you are exhausted; it helps you stay on track and achieve challenging goals when unexpected obstacles arise.

Is it worth learning to exercise impressive self-control? Yes, if you want to achieve your goals, be productive, and develop professionally and personally. Any of us can become self-disciplined – it’s just about practice. We also recommend reading books about discipline to deepen your understanding.

It has been proven that self-discipline helps improve learning ability and increase productivity. Students with a high level of self-discipline learn more knowledge and perform tasks more efficiently.

Are there people who are self-disciplined from birth? Perhaps. But it has been proven that this skill can and should be improved. Developing discipline is like going to the gym. The more you work on it, the stronger you become.

You’re self-disciplined if you:

  • Keep your promises: If you can't keep a promise, don't make it. People are counting on you.

  • Are punctual: Not being late for school, work, important meetings, and even dates is very important. Nobody likes to wait.

  • Make important things a priority: Start with the most difficult, and by the end of the day, you can do everything you've planned.

  • Plan the day and follow through: Every evening, write a to-do list for tomorrow and so on, so that you don't miss anything important.

  • Aren’t dependent on gadgets: It’s important to put your phone away while working. 

  • Set a timer for work: By setting a deadline, you can get your work done faster.

Best books on discipline

One reason people don't live the lives they want is that they lack self-discipline. We can't become more disciplined in our thinking and behavior if we don't understand how our habits and skills work. To learn how the human brain works, cultivate useful habits, manage emotions, or motivate yourself to change, turn to books on discipline.

Discipline is closely related to self-control and self-regulation. It refers to our ability to agree with ourselves to perform unpleasant work or a difficult task.

Critical additional skills are:

  • Management of negative emotions that can interfere with the completion of the task

  • The ability to overcome analytical paralysis

  • The ability to work outside our comfort zone

Many people get lost when taking the first steps and trying to understand how to develop self-discipline. After all, it’s difficult to decide where to apply new skills first because personal life, work, and health all seem important. The main thing is not to overload yourself; otherwise, you’ll not be able to form a positive impression of discipline.

Remember, nobody is born disciplined, but then nobody is born a quitter or a procrastinator either. We have learned these behaviors through our upbringing and our own experiences.

How Not to Hate Your Husband After Kids

by Jancee Dunn

4.6 (1710 reviews)

What is How Not to Hate Your Husband After Kids about?

In this insightful and humorous book, Jancee Dunn shares her personal journey of navigating the challenges of marriage after having children. With a blend of research, expert advice, and relatable anecdotes, she offers practical strategies to help couples maintain a strong and loving relationship amidst the chaos of parenthood. From communication breakdowns to divvying up household chores, this book provides valuable insights and tips for any couple looking to strengthen their bond and find happiness in their post-kids life.

Who should read How Not to Hate Your Husband After Kids

  • New mothers struggling to maintain a healthy relationship with their husbands.

  • Couples seeking advice on navigating the challenges of parenthood.

  • Individuals interested in understanding the impact of children on marriages.

A Guide to the Good Life

by William B. Irvine

4.6 (3641 reviews)

What is A Guide to the Good Life about?

In this insightful guide, the author explores the ancient philosophy of Stoicism and its practical application in modern life. Drawing from the wisdom of Stoic thinkers, Irvine presents a step-by-step approach to finding joy and tranquility amidst the chaos of everyday existence. With practical exercises and thought-provoking insights, this book offers a roadmap to living a fulfilling life guided by reason, resilience, and inner peace.

Who should read A Guide to the Good Life

  • Individuals seeking practical wisdom and tranquility in their lives.

  • Philosophy enthusiasts interested in exploring Stoic principles and practices.

  • Anyone looking to cultivate resilience and find joy in adversity.

Declutter Your Mind

by S. J. Scott & Barrie Davenport

4.4 (3456 reviews)

What is Declutter Your Mind about?

In this insightful guide, two experienced authors offer practical strategies to declutter your mind and find inner peace. They delve into the root causes of worry, anxiety, and negative thinking, providing step-by-step techniques to overcome these challenges. With a focus on mindfulness, self-reflection, and positive habits, this book empowers readers to regain control of their thoughts, reduce stress, and cultivate a more peaceful and fulfilling life.

Who should read Declutter Your Mind

  • Individuals struggling with anxiety and negative thinking patterns.

  • People seeking practical strategies to reduce worry and stress.

  • Anyone interested in improving their mental well-being and finding peace.

The Daily Stoic

by Ryan Holiday & Stephen Hanselman

4.8 (26030 reviews)

What is The Daily Stoic about?

"The Daily Stoic" is a thought-provoking book that offers daily meditations to help readers cultivate clarity, effectiveness, and serenity in their lives. Drawing from the wisdom of ancient Stoic philosophers, the book provides practical insights and exercises to navigate the challenges of modern life. With 366 meditations, one for each day of the year, this book serves as a valuable guide for personal growth and self-reflection.

Who should read The Daily Stoic

  • Individuals seeking daily inspiration and guidance for a stoic lifestyle.

  • Business professionals looking to enhance their clarity and effectiveness.

  • Anyone interested in cultivating serenity and inner peace.

Can’t Hurt Me

by David Goggins

4.8 (70488 reviews)

What is Can’t Hurt Me about?

In this inspiring and transformative book, the author shares his remarkable journey from a troubled childhood to becoming a Navy SEAL and ultra-endurance athlete. Through his personal anecdotes and powerful insights, he reveals the strategies and mindset that helped him overcome immense physical and mental challenges. With a focus on mastering the mind and defying the odds, this book offers valuable lessons on pushing past limitations and achieving greatness.

Who should read Can’t Hurt Me

  • Individuals seeking motivation and inspiration to overcome life's challenges.

  • Athletes and fitness enthusiasts looking to push their limits.

  • Anyone interested in personal growth and mental resilience.

Bright Line Eating

by Susan Peirce Thompson, Ph.D.

4.4 (7000 reviews)

What is Bright Line Eating about?

In this insightful book, a renowned psychologist delves into the science behind successful weight loss and offers a groundbreaking approach to achieving a happy, thin, and free life. Drawing on her own personal struggles with food addiction, the author presents a comprehensive program called Bright Line Eating, which combines neuroscience, psychology, and nutrition to help readers break free from the grip of food cravings and create sustainable habits for long-term weight management and overall well-being.

Who should read Bright Line Eating

  • Individuals struggling with weight loss and seeking a scientific approach.

  • People interested in understanding the psychology behind food addiction.

  • Those looking for a comprehensive guide to maintaining a healthy lifestyle.

15 Secrets Successful People Know About Time Management

by Kevin Kruse

4.6 (1638 reviews)

What is 15 Secrets Successful People Know About Time Management about?

In this insightful guide, the author shares 15 powerful secrets that successful individuals use to effectively manage their time. Drawing from interviews with top achievers, Kevin Kruse provides practical strategies and techniques to help readers prioritize tasks, eliminate distractions, and maximize productivity. With a focus on achieving work-life balance, this book offers valuable advice for anyone seeking to enhance their time management skills and achieve greater success in their personal and professional lives.

Who should read 15 Secrets Successful People Know About Time Management

  • Busy professionals seeking effective time management strategies for increased productivity.

  • Students looking to improve their time management skills for academic success.

  • Entrepreneurs and business owners aiming to optimize their time utilization.

Extreme Ownership

by Jocko Willink, Leif Babin

4.8 (28498 reviews)

What is Extreme Ownership about?

"Extreme Ownership" explores the leadership principles and strategies employed by U.S. Navy SEALs to achieve success in high-pressure situations. Drawing from their experiences in combat, the authors emphasize the importance of taking full responsibility for one's actions and decisions, both individually and as a team. Through captivating anecdotes and practical advice, this book offers valuable insights into effective leadership, empowering readers to apply these principles in their own lives and organizations.

Who should read Extreme Ownership

  • Military personnel seeking leadership insights from experienced Navy SEALs.

  • Business executives looking to apply SEAL leadership principles in their organizations.

  • Individuals interested in personal development and self-improvement strategies.

How to Stop Procrastinating

by S.J. Scott

4.3 (594 reviews)

What is How to Stop Procrastinating about?

This book offers a practical and straightforward approach to overcoming procrastination. It provides effective strategies and techniques to help readers tackle difficult tasks and develop a productive mindset. With actionable advice and real-life examples, the author guides readers through the process of breaking the procrastination habit and achieving their goals. Whether it's work, personal projects, or daily responsibilities, this guide offers valuable insights to help readers become more focused, motivated, and efficient.

Who should read How to Stop Procrastinating

  • Students struggling with time management and overcoming procrastination.

  • Professionals seeking effective strategies to increase productivity and eliminate procrastination.

  • Individuals looking for practical techniques to overcome procrastination and achieve goals.

How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk

by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish

4.7 (10046 reviews)

What is How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk about?

This insightful guide offers practical strategies and effective communication techniques for parents and caregivers to connect with children. Written by renowned experts, it provides valuable advice on fostering healthy relationships, resolving conflicts, and promoting cooperation. With real-life examples and easy-to-follow tips, this book equips adults with the tools they need to communicate effectively and build strong connections with kids, ultimately creating a harmonious and respectful environment for everyone involved.

Who should read How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk

  • Parents seeking effective communication strategies with their children.

  • Teachers looking to improve their communication skills with students.

  • Childcare professionals aiming to enhance their interactions with children.

The Dichotomy of Leadership

by Jocko Willink, Leif Babin

4.8 (6094 reviews)

What is The Dichotomy of Leadership about?

"The Dichotomy of Leadership" explores the delicate balance leaders must strike between taking ownership of their actions and decisions while also empowering their team members. Drawing from their experiences as Navy SEAL officers, the authors delve into the challenges leaders face in high-pressure situations and provide practical guidance on how to navigate these dichotomies to achieve success. This book offers valuable insights and strategies for anyone seeking to enhance their leadership skills and effectively lead and win.

Who should read The Dichotomy of Leadership

  • Military leaders seeking to enhance their leadership skills.

  • Business executives looking to apply military leadership principles.

  • Individuals interested in personal growth and self-improvement.

Discipline Equals Freedom

by Jocko Willink

4.8 (6259 reviews)

What is Discipline Equals Freedom about?

In this empowering field manual, the author, a former Navy SEAL, reveals the key to achieving freedom in all aspects of life: discipline. With his no-nonsense approach, he shares practical strategies and mindset shifts to overcome obstacles, develop self-control, and maximize productivity. Through personal anecdotes and powerful insights, this book serves as a guide to unlock one's true potential and embrace the freedom that discipline brings.

Who should read Discipline Equals Freedom

  • Military personnel seeking practical strategies for self-discipline and success.

  • Entrepreneurs and professionals looking to cultivate discipline in their lives.

  • Individuals seeking motivation and guidance to overcome personal challenges.

First Man In

by Anthony Middleton

4.5 (19663 reviews)

What is First Man In about?

In this gripping memoir, a former Special Forces soldier shares his experiences and lessons learned from his time in the military. From grueling training to intense combat missions, the author takes readers on a journey through the highs and lows of his career. With a focus on leadership and resilience, this book offers valuable insights into what it takes to lead from the front and overcome challenges in any field.

Who should read First Man In

  • Aspiring leaders seeking practical advice on leading with courage and resilience.

  • Military personnel looking for insights on effective leadership strategies.

  • Individuals interested in personal development and overcoming challenges.

The Spartan Way

by Brett and Kate Mckay

4.5 (195 reviews)

What is The Spartan Way about?

"The Spartan Way" explores the timeless wisdom and principles of ancient Spartan warriors, offering valuable lessons for modern men. Drawing from historical accounts and philosophical teachings, authors Brett and Kate McKay delve into the Spartan way of life, emphasizing discipline, resilience, and self-mastery. This thought-provoking book inspires readers to adopt a Spartan mindset, empowering them to overcome challenges, cultivate inner strength, and lead a purposeful life in today's world.

Who should read The Spartan Way

  • Men seeking inspiration and guidance from ancient warrior principles.

  • History enthusiasts interested in the Spartan way of life.

  • Individuals looking to adopt a disciplined and resilient mindset.

The Perfect Day Formula

by Craig Ballantyne

4.4 (684 reviews)

What is The Perfect Day Formula about?

"The Perfect Day Formula" by Craig Ballantyne is a practical guide that teaches readers how to take control of their day and ultimately, their life. With a focus on productivity, time management, and goal-setting, Ballantyne provides actionable strategies and techniques to help readers create a daily routine that maximizes their potential and leads to personal and professional success. This book is a valuable resource for anyone seeking to improve their productivity and achieve their goals.

Who should read The Perfect Day Formula

  • Busy professionals seeking to regain control of their hectic schedules.

  • Individuals struggling with time management and productivity in their lives.

  • Anyone looking to optimize their daily routines and achieve greater success.

The 12 Week Year

by Brian P. Moran, Michael Lennington

4.7 (5308 reviews)

What is The 12 Week Year about?

"The 12 Week Year" offers a transformative approach to productivity and goal achievement. Written by Brian P. Moran and Michael Lennington, this book presents a system that enables individuals to accomplish more in 12 weeks than most people do in an entire year. By focusing on shorter time frames and implementing strategic planning, readers will learn how to maximize their productivity, stay motivated, and achieve their goals with greater efficiency.

Who should read The 12 Week Year

  • Entrepreneurs and business owners seeking to maximize productivity and results.

  • Individuals looking to improve their time management and goal-setting skills.

  • Professionals in any field who want to achieve more in less time.

Living with a SEAL

by Jesse Itzler

4.8 (5735 reviews)

What is Living with a SEAL about?

In this captivating memoir, the author invites readers on an extraordinary journey as he hires a Navy SEAL to live with him and push his limits for a month. From grueling workouts to mental challenges, this hilarious and inspiring account explores the transformative power of discipline, resilience, and embracing discomfort. With wit and raw honesty, the author shares his life-changing experience training with the toughest man on the planet.

Who should read Living with a SEAL

  • Fitness enthusiasts seeking inspiration and a unique training perspective.

  • Individuals looking for a motivational memoir with a touch of humor.

  • Anyone interested in personal growth and pushing their limits.

The Happiest Toddler on the Block

by Harvey Karp, M.D., Paula Spencer

4.5 (1920 reviews)

What is The Happiest Toddler on the Block about?

In this insightful parenting guide, a renowned pediatrician and his co-author offer practical strategies to tackle tantrums and foster positive behavior in toddlers aged one to four. Drawing from years of experience, the authors provide effective techniques to communicate with young children, understand their needs, and create a harmonious environment. With a focus on patience, respect, and cooperation, this book equips parents with the tools to navigate the challenging toddler years with confidence and joy.

Who should read The Happiest Toddler on the Block

  • Parents of toddlers struggling with tantrums and behavior issues.

  • Childcare providers seeking effective strategies for managing young children.

  • Expectant parents looking to proactively prevent tantrums and foster cooperation.

The Book You Wish Your Parents Had Read (and Your Children Will Be Glad That You Did)

by Philippa Perry

What is The Book You Wish Your Parents Had Read (and Your Children Will Be Glad That You Did) about?

"The Book You Wish Your Parents Had Read (and Your Children Will Be Glad That You Did)" is a compassionate and insightful guide by Philippa Perry that explores the complexities of parenting. With a focus on building strong relationships and understanding the emotional needs of both parents and children, Perry offers practical advice and shares personal anecdotes to help navigate the challenges of raising children in a nurturing and supportive way. This book is a valuable resource for parents seeking to create a positive and loving environment for their children.

Who should read The Book You Wish Your Parents Had Read (and Your Children Will Be Glad That You Did)

  • Parents seeking guidance on building healthier relationships with their children.

  • Adults looking to understand the impact of their upbringing on their own parenting style.

  • Individuals interested in improving communication and emotional connections within their family.

The Procrastination Cure

by Damon Zahariades

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What is The Procrastination Cure about?

"The Procrastination Cure" offers readers 21 proven tactics to overcome their inner procrastinator, take control of their time, and enhance productivity. Written by Damon Zahariades, this book provides practical strategies and actionable steps to help individuals break free from the cycle of procrastination and achieve their goals. With insightful advice and real-life examples, this guide empowers readers to conquer their procrastination habits and unlock their full potential.

Who should read The Procrastination Cure

  • Students struggling with time management and productivity in their studies.

  • Professionals seeking effective strategies to overcome procrastination and increase productivity.

  • Individuals looking to improve their time management skills and achieve their goals.