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Summary of Eight Dates 

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What’s inside

Unlock the secrets to lasting love with insightful conversations, master the art of commitment, and spark lasting closeness with your partner.

You’ll learn

  • The true definition of commitment and trust
  • Why conflicts are essential, and how to manage them
  • Keeping the flame of passion alight against life's odds
  • How to balance work and love
  • Reinforcing the bond through shared dreams and rituals

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  • What is Eight Dates about?
  • Who should read Eight Dates
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first key point

There is a science to long-lasting relationships

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The global divorce rate is scary.

More than half of all marriages in the United States end in divorce. In Portugal, it's 70 percent. The percentage varies in different countries, but it's still scary. And that's not to mention the number of unhappy married people.

That should scare you. With the increasing number of dissatisfied couples, what are the odds that your relationship will last the test of time? Most divorced couples didn't see their separation coming when they first got together. Everything seemed to be going well until they got married and life happened.

Based on research, couples who can make it into 7 years of marriage stand a better chance at a successful relationship. But we've all seen couples who have been married for decades getting divorced. Finances, infidelity, and parenting are reported to be the major reasons people get a divorce. But what the authors found was that these reasons are only surface problems. There's more going on underneath and if that can be addressed properly, couples will understand each other better, become more empathetic towards one another, and increase their chances of staying together for a lifetime.

The goal of these eight dates is to take you and your partner through eight topics that could potentially make or mar your marriage. The idea is to have conversations with your significant other on each of these topics and gain a better understanding of one another. While researching for the book, volunteering couples were asked to undergo the eight dates and report their experiences. Almost all of them reported finding things about each other that they didn't know before — and these couples ranged from people dating, to engaged couples, newlyweds, and those who have been married for decades. Their age range was 21-67, so this applies to everyone!
Staying in love takes a level of vulnerability that isn’t always comfortable.
We'll get into the eight dates now, one chapter for each date. Pay careful attention to the details and create time with your partner to actually go on these dates. Each chapter will end with discussions you should have with your partner and affirmations to solidify your commitment.
second key point

Commitment is a choice and it creates trust

In romantic relationships, we're often asking ourselves if our partners love us enough; if we can trust them to always make us a priority; and if they would be there when we're hurting.
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Conflict is good

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Keep the passion burning

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Work, money, and love

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Make family life an opportunity to grow

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Couples that play together stay together

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Growth is a sign that you're alive

ninth key point

Support each other's dreams

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